I’m still figuring out exactly how my blog is going to take shape. Granted, I participate in a bunch of social venues (e.g. Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, my company blog, etc.) but I wanted to somehow integrate my personal and professional lives together and write about it. However, right now my fixation has been my running. So while I can, and will, blog about tech, social media and society in general this post is primarily about running.
I’ve been watching, and enjoying – not appropriate at all but I do like how the show makes me feel – a show on the Discovey Channel called “Surviving the Cut“. It takes viewers into the intense world of military elite forces training. I have a great appreciation and a personal back-story about why I like it so much (for a later post) but suffice it to say I get it at an intellectual level. I won’t say that I totally get it, because I don’t – because I never did it – but because part of what I wanted, more than anything (and still do), is the experience of a life or death experience that pushes you mentally and physically to my max, it’s one of my favorite shows on TV.

Anyway, what I really caught during the most recent episode was that there were a few things that I was missing out of during my own training. It started me reflecting about how I could use a passive activity, like watching a TV program, to help me train better. Here’s what I came up with:
Train with a true purpose
What you think is ready, and what is really ready for a given situation, is always tremendously different from reality. If you are going to train you need a real reason. If it’s for fun, train for that, but cut yourself a break, you don’t have much on the line other than personal pride. If it’s a race, train for that. It’s a whole different scenario depending on what you want to accomplish. If you’re like me, I have tough, and often unrealistic, goals. But regardless, having something to work toward, a purpose, is really important and what will keep you moving in the right direction no matter how you feel.
We (You and I) are More Capable than what We Think
Sure we all have our limitations, but just how many of them are really in our mind? I can’t comment clinically on psychology, but if you’re like me you can do a lot more than you think you can. The problem is we don’t think we can. If we can think past that little voice in our heads telling us what we can, and cannot, do we can go a lot farther than we ever dreamed possible. There is a balance, of course, between doing something and doing something safely, but it’s further apart than we think it is. Just know what you want, dig deep and get the job done! Most of the time, you – and I – will be thrilled with what we’ve been able to accomplish. Just give yourself the permission to do so.
Rushing Can Often Do More Damage Than Good
In what I’ve seen, know and have read about military training and operations, the single most deadly aspect of a plan is the failure to have one. Regardless of what you are trying to accomplish, having a plan to get you from where you are to where you want to be is the difference between life and death. However, even if your plan is less-then well thought-out, it’s always better than no plan at all. You’ll probably prevail when presented with adversity. Likewise, if you have no plan you’ll probably fail. Remember, fail to plan, plan to fail.
In a race this means, if all else fails reassess your strategy, take your time, and you’ll probably do just fine. Don’t fixate on time, work toward finishing.
Never Leave a Man Behind
Again, I can’t identify with this personally, but I love the concept. Never, ever, leave someone behind if you can help them get home. In the military this directly relates to the field of battle, but if we were to extrapolate to the race course I think we could find a few similarities. Number one of my mind are the folks at the back of the pack. If you’re at, or near the front, of the pack take a second to cheer on those behind you, especially if your race is an out and back. Even better, if you’ve finished well in front of those behind you and know you have “gas in the tank” loop back and support the runners that are lagging behind. It doesn’t cost you much in terms of energy and it helps someone else accomplish their goal. Win-Win in my mind. Regardless, just think about the others out there with you. It may change your perspective, even a bit, of the race. After all, we’re in it for the same reason.
Granted, I run because I love how I feel after I do. I also love having a goal and working toward it, but I don’t, nor do any of you, have the pressure of special ops training in the military (and if you do I apologize, but I hope you get my point). Could you our I pass Special Ops training? I don’t know. I’d like to think that my running has helped me greatly with it, but I don’t know how I’d react to the physical and mental pressure of that kind of training. Regardless, whether I passed or failed, I’d like to believe that my running – especially at distance – would give me the endurance and mental ability to do it, but you really never know. More importantly, I’d like to hope that I’d never forget the bigger picture and why I, and others are doing it.
True survival and success in military ops is so much different than running for fun. We should be truly appreciative (which I am) of our US Military and what they go through to keep us safe. Most of us think we have what it takes…I think the reality is that few, if any, really do.
For me it’s just another reason to run…and run far and run well.





4 Comments
Dave,
Great post! That is a pretty good summation of goal setting. I would add that when planning goals, you should really come up with 3 goals (A, B, C) with A being your main goal and B&C being your fall-back goals. A would be the “if everything aligns perfectly and I am having a great day” goal; it’s definitely not a wishful thinking goal. We all have on and off days. We could be in perfect shape but for some reason today’s run is just horrible. Same could go for race day and usually those days are always a big gamble since we are usually more on edge, have more adrenaline than usual, we could be away from home and out of our “normal” which can really screw us up. A, B and C goals are very important on race day so that we don’t go home too disappointed.
The other part I would add here is patience. You are right about being capable of more than we think, but it is slow goings to get there. Otherwise, we face injury – I see it happen again and again. In my day to day life, things move fast, almost at the speed of light sometimes (at least that’s the way it feels at times.) In my running life, time moves much slower as I plot my progress and watch improvements. But, when I look back at where I was a year ago, I see good things. Patience is what got me there, not speed.
Glad to see you blogging. I’ll keep this bookmarked and check back.
Best of luck with your continued training and future PRs!
Jill
Jill,
Sorry for the delay – I had some technical difficulties – but I’m back.
Beautiful and insightful comment as expected! I 100% totally agree with your last two paragraphs. Patience is key, as is permission…to succeed or fail. We all need some wiggle room. Nothing ever goes as planned, and sometimes things just happen.
And I do like your goal-setting mindset but I don’t like that much room in my “failure-zone”. I don’t think it makes me right and you wrong, but I do think it makes our goals different! And to me…that is ok. We need to agree to disagree, to help each other and push our individual comfort levels a bit.
And for the public record, I totally respect your running spirit, style and knowledge. More importantly I appreciate your comments! I’ve been blogging – off and on – since 2000 so I’m pretty familiar with the format. And yes, you can expect more from me. I just need to align it with where I’m at currently. Regardless, I think a running-centric blog is where I’m at. With some tech and other stuff mixed in for fun. Thanks for setting the pace.
And if you ever need or want a guest blogger I’m sure I can help out. It would be a privilege!
Thanks again!
But…
I think you nailed it. Almost no fitness goal is unrealistic. I’ve met above the knee amputees who have finished Ironmans and people who have run 100-mile ultras. The human body is remarkably resilient. And when connected to a determined, focused (and slightly imbalanced) mind, virtually anything is possible. As you stated, it takes purpose, patience and support from others in addition to dedication.
Thanks for the comment Mike! I apologize for the delay in responding to it. Embarrassing to say but I was having some technical difficulties on my own blog (I save them for me). Regardless, I love your perspective…body in balance, mind…not so much. But you are right, anything is possible. We just need to give ourselves permission to go and get it. Having friends and family to support you is an essential component and icing on the cake.